RESOURCES + LINKS
Websites
International Academy of Collaborative Professionals (IACP)
Oregon Association of Collaborative Professionals (OACP)
Oregon Mediation Association (OMA)
Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (AFCC)
Oregon State Bar: Alternative Dispute Resolution
Oregon Child Support Guidelines
Parent Education Classes - State List
Articles
U.S. News & World Report
Why an Uncontested Divorce Makes Financial Sense
USA Today
Collaborative divorce offers options to court battles
New York Times (paywall)
Amiable Unhitching, With a Prod
Chicago Tribune
Can your divorce be collaborative?
Books
Books for Divorcing Individuals:
The Good Divorce
By Constance Ahrons
Divorce and New Beginning
By Genevieve Clapp Ph.D
The Good Karma Divorce
By Judge Michelle Lowarnce
Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends
By Bruce Fisher
Getting Past Your Break-up: How to Turn a Devastating Loss into the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You
By Susan J. Elliot
Books on Parenting During and After Divorce:
Divorce Book for Parents: Helping your Children Cope with Divorce and It's Aftermath
By Vicki Lansky
Speaking of Divorce: How to Talk with Your Kids and Help Them Cope
By Roberta Beyer
Mom's House, Dad's House: Making two Homes for your Child
By Isolina Ricci, Ph.D
The Quick Guide to Co-Parenting After Divorce: Three Steps to Your Children's Healthy Adjustment
By Lisa Gabardi
The Co-Parents' Handbook:Raising Well-Adjusted, Resilient, and Resourceful Kids in a Two-Home Family for Little Ones to Young Adults
By Karen Bonnell and Kristin Little
The Truth About Children and Divorce
By Robert E. Emery Ph.D
Helping Your Kids the Sandcastle Way
By M. Gary Neuman
Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
By Stone, Patton, and Heen
Non Violent Communication
By Marshall Rosenberg
Books for Children:
Mom's House, Dad's House for Kids
By Isolina Ricci, Ph.D
What in the World do you do When Your Parents Divorce?
By Kent Winchester and Roberta Beyer
A Volcano in my Tummy
By Elaine Whitehouse
Dinosaurs Divorce
By Laurene Krasny Brown
It's Not Your Fault, Koko Bear
By Vicki Lansky
Miscellaneous Reading:
The Dance of Anger
By Harriet Goldhor Lerner Ph.D
Boundaries: Where You End and I Begin
By Anne Katherine, M.A.
Loving Him without Losing You
By Beverly Engle
Why Marriages Succeed or Fail and How You Can Make Yours Last
By John Gottman, Ph.D
The Woman's Comfort Book
By Jennifer Louden
The Tao of Negotiation: How You Can Prevent, Resolve and Transcend Conflict in Work and Everyday Life
By Joel Edelman and Mary Beth Crain